Adds FLASHINFER_SAGE_ATTN3 wrapping flashinfer's dense SM120 NVFP4 attention (flashinfer-ai/flashinfer#3640), falling back to torch SDPA with one warning when flashinfer/SM120 is unavailable, and an env-gated JSONL attention shape logger (FASTVIDEO_ATTN_SHAPE_LOG) hooked into the new backend and SAGE_ATTN_THREE to collect real workload shapes for SM121 (DGX Spark) kernel tuning.