diff --git a/movie_editor/backend/builder.py b/movie_editor/backend/builder.py
index 66858a4d..69c1ac2d 100644
--- a/movie_editor/backend/builder.py
+++ b/movie_editor/backend/builder.py
@@ -20,6 +20,7 @@ Output is a ComfyUI /prompt graph: {node_id: {class_type, inputs}}.
 from __future__ import annotations
 
 import json
+import re
 import uuid
 from typing import Any, Optional
 
@@ -993,6 +994,35 @@ def build(object_info: dict, models_config: dict, params: dict, media: dict | No
             report["blocking"].append(msg)
         report["unsatisfied"].append(msg)
 
+    # 6. media-OR: when a node has a video reference AND its same-index image reference
+    # both wired (e.g. you left an image-reference workflow's socket filled and then also
+    # filled the matching video-reference one), the video wins and the image socket is
+    # dropped — sending both is redundant at best and an unintended double reference at
+    # worst. Opt-out per node (slot.media_or === False); on by default. Runs last, after
+    # every wiring phase, so it only sees sockets that actually ended up filled.
+    # Dropping ref_image_N alone would leave a gap if ref_image_(N+1) survives — ordinary
+    # multi-reference use, not an edge case, for a list whose whole point is more than one
+    # entry — and V3 autogrow expansion needs contiguous indices from 0. So each affected
+    # list's survivors get re-indexed afterward to close any gap the drop left behind.
+    reindex_groups: set[tuple[str, str, str]] = set()
+    for s in slots:
+        if s.get("media_or") is False:
+            continue
+        sid = slot_node_id.get(s["id"])
+        if not sid or sid not in graph:
+            continue
+        node_inputs = graph[sid]["inputs"]
+        for image_name, video_name in _media_or_pairs(slot_def.get(s["id"])):
+            if isinstance(node_inputs.get(image_name), list) and isinstance(node_inputs.get(video_name), list):
+                del node_inputs[image_name]
+                report["wired"].append(
+                    f"{s.get('node_class')}.{image_name}: dropped — {video_name} is also "
+                    "filled and takes priority (video over image reference).")
+                parent, child = image_name.split(".", 1)
+                reindex_groups.add((sid, parent, re.sub(r"\d+$", "", child)))
+    for sid, parent, prefix in reindex_groups:
+        _reindex_autogrow_group(graph[sid]["inputs"], parent, prefix)
+
     return graph, report
 
 
@@ -1165,6 +1195,37 @@ def _canonical_input(node_def: Optional[dict], name: str) -> str:
     return name
 
 
+def _media_or_pairs(node_def: Optional[dict]) -> list[tuple[str, str]]:
+    """Same-index autogrow sockets that name the same reference slot once as IMAGE and
+    once as VIDEO (MiniMax H3's ref_images.ref_image_0 / ref_videos.ref_video_0, and any
+    node following the same convention) — found generically by swapping "image" for
+    "video" in the dotted socket id, no per-node list to maintain."""
+    names = {ci["name"] for ci in connection_inputs(node_def or {}) if ci.get("autogrow")}
+    pairs = []
+    for name in names:
+        video_name = re.sub("image", "video", name, flags=re.IGNORECASE)
+        if video_name != name and video_name in names:
+            pairs.append((name, video_name))
+    return pairs
+
+
+def _reindex_autogrow_group(node_inputs: dict, parent: str, prefix: str) -> None:
+    """Renumber `<parent>.<prefix><N>` entries still present in `node_inputs` to be
+    contiguous from 0, preserving relative order — used after media-OR removes one entry
+    from the middle of an autogrow list, which V3 expansion otherwise can't parse."""
+    entries = []
+    for key in node_inputs:
+        if not key.startswith(parent + "."):
+            continue
+        suffix = key[len(parent) + 1:][len(prefix):]
+        if key[len(parent) + 1:].startswith(prefix) and suffix.isdigit():
+            entries.append((int(suffix), key))
+    entries.sort()
+    for new_idx, (old_idx, key) in enumerate(entries):
+        if new_idx != old_idx:
+            node_inputs[f"{parent}.{prefix}{new_idx}"] = node_inputs.pop(key)
+
+
 def _resolve_target(target: str, port_to_core, slot_node_id) -> Optional[tuple[str, str]]:
     if target.startswith("port:"):
         return port_to_core.get(target[5:])
diff --git a/movie_editor/frontend/models.js b/movie_editor/frontend/models.js
index 27845036..afcc970d 100644
--- a/movie_editor/frontend/models.js
+++ b/movie_editor/frontend/models.js
@@ -173,6 +173,20 @@
     }
   }
 
+  // Same-index autogrow sockets naming the same reference slot once as IMAGE and once as
+  // VIDEO (MiniMax H3's ref_images.ref_image_0 / ref_videos.ref_video_0, and anything else
+  // following the convention) — mirrors backend/builder.py's _media_or_pairs so the toggle
+  // only appears where the backend will actually act on it.
+  function mediaOrPairs(connectionInputs) {
+    const names = new Set((connectionInputs || []).filter((ci) => ci.autogrow).map((ci) => ci.name));
+    const pairs = [];
+    names.forEach((name) => {
+      const videoName = name.replace(/image/gi, "video");
+      if (videoName !== name && names.has(videoName)) pairs.push([name, videoName]);
+    });
+    return pairs;
+  }
+
   function allowedSources(slot, ci) {
     const all = sources(slot, ci.type);
     if (!pipelineLocked()) return all;
@@ -880,6 +894,16 @@
       });
       if (advBox) sbox.append(advBox);
       card.append(sbox);
+
+      if (mediaOrPairs(cand.connection_inputs).length) {
+        const orRow = el("label", "field node-media-or-field");
+        const cb = el("input"); cb.type = "checkbox"; cb.style.width = "auto";
+        cb.checked = slot.media_or !== false;
+        cb.onchange = async () => { slot.media_or = cb.checked ? undefined : false; await persist(); };
+        orRow.append(cb);
+        orRow.append(el("span", null, "When both an image and a video reference are filled at the same slot, send only the video"));
+        card.append(orRow);
+      }
     }
 
     if (cand && cand.inputs.length) {
@@ -1900,6 +1924,7 @@
 
   async function saveLinkSelection() {
     if (linkSel.length < 1) return;
+    if (!settleForegroundEdit()) return;
     if (linkTarget) return addLinkSelection();
     const def = "size " + ((config.links || []).length + 1);
     const nm = prompt("Link name:", def); if (nm == null) return;
@@ -2183,6 +2208,24 @@
     _setView(v);
   }
 
+  // Link picking happens ON a node's own page (via beginEdit()'s deferSave buffer), which
+  // means an unrelated edit to that node's own fields can be sitting buffered when the
+  // user hits "Save link"/"Add". Previously that edit got persisted silently along with
+  // the link — the same dirty-change decision setView() already confirms before leaving a
+  // page, applied here since saving a link is also a page-leaving action. Discards the
+  // stray edit (not the link, which the caller creates afterward) on confirm; returns
+  // false to abort the save if the user declines.
+  function settleForegroundEdit() {
+    if (!deferDirty) return true;
+    if (!confirm(
+      "This node has unsaved changes that aren't part of the link.\n\n"
+      + "Discard them and save the link? Cancel to go back and save or discard them first."
+    )) return false;
+    restoreBaseline();
+    deferDirty = false;
+    return true;
+  }
+
   const mnItem = (opts) => window.SettingsWindow.navItem(opts);
 
   function sideBar(v) {
diff --git a/movie_editor/tests/test_builder.py b/movie_editor/tests/test_builder.py
index 4ebd10f7..e08dbaeb 100644
--- a/movie_editor/tests/test_builder.py
+++ b/movie_editor/tests/test_builder.py
@@ -649,6 +649,9 @@ REF_OI["MiniMaxH3ReferenceToVideo"] = {
         "ref_images": ["COMFY_AUTOGROW_V3", {
             "template": {"input": {"optional": {"ref_image": ["IMAGE", {}]}},
                          "prefix": "ref_image", "min": 0, "max": 4}}],
+        "ref_videos": ["COMFY_AUTOGROW_V3", {
+            "template": {"input": {"optional": {"ref_video": ["VIDEO", {}]}},
+                         "prefix": "ref_video", "min": 0, "max": 4}}],
     }},
     "output": ["CONDITIONING"], "output_name": ["conditioning"]}
 
@@ -761,6 +764,71 @@ REF_OI["LoadVideo"] = {"input": {"required": {"file": [["a.mp4"]]}}, "output": [
                        "output_name": ["VIDEO"]}
 
 
+def test_media_or_drops_the_image_when_its_paired_video_is_also_filled():
+    """Same reference index wired to both an IMAGE and a VIDEO autogrow socket: sending
+    both is redundant at best, so the video wins and the image socket is dropped."""
+    models = {"slots": [
+        {"id": "li", "node_class": "LoadImage", "inputs": {}, "wires": {}},
+        {"id": "lv", "node_class": "LoadVideo", "inputs": {}, "wires": {}},
+        {"id": "r", "node_class": "MiniMaxH3ReferenceToVideo", "inputs": {"prompt": "hi"},
+         "wires": {},
+         "input_sources": {"ref_images.ref_image0": "out:li:IMAGE", "ref_videos.ref_video0": "out:lv:VIDEO"}},
+    ]}
+    graph, report = builder.build(REF_OI, models, PARAMS, media={"filename": "scene.png"})
+    ins = graph["slot_r"]["inputs"]
+    assert "ref_images.ref_image0" not in ins
+    assert ins["ref_videos.ref_video0"] == ["slot_lv", 0]
+    assert any("ref_images.ref_image0" in m and "dropped" in m for m in report["wired"])
+
+
+def test_media_or_leaves_a_lone_image_reference_alone():
+    """No paired video wired at that index — the image reference is untouched."""
+    models = {"slots": [
+        {"id": "li", "node_class": "LoadImage", "inputs": {}, "wires": {}},
+        {"id": "r", "node_class": "MiniMaxH3ReferenceToVideo", "inputs": {"prompt": "hi"},
+         "wires": {}, "input_sources": {"ref_images.ref_image0": "out:li:IMAGE"}},
+    ]}
+    graph, _ = builder.build(REF_OI, models, PARAMS, media={"filename": "scene.png"})
+    assert graph["slot_r"]["inputs"]["ref_images.ref_image0"] == ["slot_li", 0]
+
+
+def test_media_or_reindexes_survivors_to_close_the_gap():
+    """Two image refs (0 and 1, ordinary multi-reference use) plus one video ref at index
+    0: dropping ref_image0 must not leave ref_image1 stranded at a non-zero index — V3
+    autogrow expansion wants the list contiguous from 0."""
+    models = {"slots": [
+        {"id": "li0", "node_class": "LoadImage", "inputs": {}, "wires": {}},
+        {"id": "li1", "node_class": "LoadImage", "inputs": {}, "wires": {}},
+        {"id": "lv", "node_class": "LoadVideo", "inputs": {}, "wires": {}},
+        {"id": "r", "node_class": "MiniMaxH3ReferenceToVideo", "inputs": {"prompt": "hi"},
+         "wires": {}, "input_sources": {
+             "ref_images.ref_image0": "out:li0:IMAGE",
+             "ref_images.ref_image1": "out:li1:IMAGE",
+             "ref_videos.ref_video0": "out:lv:VIDEO"}},
+    ]}
+    graph, _ = builder.build(REF_OI, models, PARAMS, media={"filename": "scene.png"})
+    ins = graph["slot_r"]["inputs"]
+    assert "ref_images.ref_image1" not in ins           # no gap left behind
+    assert ins["ref_images.ref_image0"] == ["slot_li1", 0]  # survivor re-indexed down
+    assert ins["ref_videos.ref_video0"] == ["slot_lv", 0]   # untouched, its own list has no gap
+
+
+def test_media_or_can_be_switched_off_per_node():
+    """slot.media_or === False opts a node out — both sockets stay, letting the node see
+    (and presumably reject or otherwise handle) both references itself."""
+    models = {"slots": [
+        {"id": "li", "node_class": "LoadImage", "inputs": {}, "wires": {}},
+        {"id": "lv", "node_class": "LoadVideo", "inputs": {}, "wires": {}},
+        {"id": "r", "node_class": "MiniMaxH3ReferenceToVideo", "inputs": {"prompt": "hi"},
+         "wires": {}, "media_or": False,
+         "input_sources": {"ref_images.ref_image0": "out:li:IMAGE", "ref_videos.ref_video0": "out:lv:VIDEO"}},
+    ]}
+    graph, _ = builder.build(REF_OI, models, PARAMS, media={"filename": "scene.png"})
+    ins = graph["slot_r"]["inputs"]
+    assert ins["ref_images.ref_image0"] == ["slot_li", 0]
+    assert ins["ref_videos.ref_video0"] == ["slot_lv", 0]
+
+
 def _ref_params(*refs):
     p = dict(PARAMS)
     p["references"] = [dict(r, index=i + 1) for i, r in enumerate(refs)]